
Melissa – Christian Science Sentinel, Oct. 22, 2007
“Be soft with yourself.”
The idea spoke to me, suddenly, and carried with it profound meaning.
Don’t be so hard on yourself: Be kind and gentle. It had never occurred to me that I didn’t love myself, but I discovered that I didn’t. But then as I set about to understand this statement, wonderful things began to happen. I started to learn what beauty is really about. Let me back up a bit. By the time I reached college, I was just coming to terms with the idea that I had a feminine side. My grooming and dressing habits had improved, and for the first time ever, boys seemed to notice my existence.
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